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• It seems cut-and-dried: We either break up or start planning for a long-distance relationship.But our relationship is easily the best thing that has ever happened to me, and I lie awake at night thinking I would regret or resent the job terribly if it cost me this relationship..
• I married, then divorced, the “best thing that has ever happened to me.” Years later, I have the best partner I could imagine because I’m my own partner first.· Take the best offer for you as a person and your career..
• Call it Plan A and Plan Me.Readers’ thoughts:· Loving relationships are wonderful, but they don’t really stick until you’ve invested in yourself and your life to the point where you are the best thing that’s ever happened to you..
• )When I bring it up, he seems happy to have me move there, too — at least, he doesn’t ask me not to.How can I tell whether this is worth considering, or whether it’s just fear?— Stay or Go?Stay or Go?.
• Despite our best efforts to find jobs together in New York, his best job offer came from Philadelphia and mine from the Bay Area..
• If I were you, though, I hope I would think hard about what our priorities say about the health of our relationship and the wisdom of putting so many chips on that square.Obviously, Philadelphia is big enough for the both of you..